A Learning Experience – More Thoughts for January 8th, 2015


I will look on all things with love and I will be born again.
I will love the sun for it warms my bones; yet I will love the rain for it cleanses my spirit.
I will love the light for it shows me the way; yet I will love the darkness for it shows me the stars.
I will welcome happiness for it enlarges my heart; yet I will endure sadness for it opens my soul.
I will acknowledge rewards for they are my due; yet I will welcome obstacles for they are my challenge.
Og Mandino – from “The Greatest Salesman In The World”

Every day I need to remember these things. Every day I need to get out of myself and learn to love others more, and get out of myself less.
Today I was all wrapped up in myself, things just didn’t go my way today and I made myself miserable all day. What was the point of doing that?
It is all about ego, it is all about thinking that I had everything figured out and then when an obstacle came along, well it just messed up everything for a while.
I know better than that, yet there I was, sitting in my own self-pity, wondering what was the point of all my hard work if someone could come along and just take away what I had been building? Well they can’t! I can’t let them.
I knew better.
I guess life is just that way sometimes. It is learning to adapt. Learning to not let outside forces come in and take away my serenity. Learning that no matter what, sometimes things just don’t go my way.
Every obstacle is a learning opportunity, an opportunity to grow and be able to be ready to handle adversity the next time it happens. It is also a big reminder that I still have a LOT to learn about a LOT of things and that I need to make sure that I am teachable, that doing things my way in spite of what others tell me is not a good idea. What is the point of learning from people that have already been through what I am going through if I am not going to apply it in my own life? There is no point. That is what EGO is all about.
Not sure if patience is the right word to ask for, but I know that acceptance is.
I will learn, I will grow, I will succeed. I WILL!
Enjoy your day
Mark Eaves

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Man in recovery from everything, looking for a little help, inspiration and direction.... Have spent the last 25 years working in big business, getting lost in all the chaos, not feeling like what I did mattered. By no means am I a professional writer nor do I even think I am that good, but it is something I love to do. Getting lost in a world of words, even for just a little while is why I started my blogs. In reality, at the age of 49 I am trying to find my voice. To find my passion. Maybe starting a little late, but better late than never. I write for me, I enjoy reading other's thoughts very much as well and look forward to the day that I can hold an extended, intelligent, meaningful conversation with YOU View all posts by joatmon14

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