I need to stop changing my goals to meet my behavior, and start changing my behavior to meet my goals.
That made so much sense and it is EXACTLY what I have done my entire life. When things do not go as I planned them, I change what I need (or want) the end result to be so that I will not have to change what I am trying to do in order to achieve the result.
When things get “hard” or “tough”, I always come up with some excuse to not meet my desired goal, thereby justifying in my head the need to change the goal or end result.
It was an “A-Ha” moment. Now the question is, what am I going to do with it?